Fashion and Styling Tips For Moms : Express Your Style!

             

                 

 

Fashion is a form of self-expression that present our attitude, style and personality. Good dressing sense boost our confidence, self-esteem and physical attractions. In our society, it's important to dress appropriately, the clothing we wear reflects our identity, it does make an impact and first impression.

As a busy mom, there are drastic days when I feel overwhelmed and burnt-out with messy hair and baggy tees, it's indeed challenging to look cool and fashionable when there are so many tasks and mummy duties everyday, but that doesn't mean we can't be a stylish mom! :)

 

I love fashion and I like checking out the latest trends for the seasons. Since I work from home, I don't have to dress like the OL (*Office Ladies). I go for comfort and style in general. My dressing style is mostly Urban / Street-Wear fashion for regular days, however, for special/important occasions and business events, I dress formal.

Here's my personal fashion & styling tips that may give you some ideas to look more chic and sleek!

        

 

Fashion and Styling Tips For Moms :

 

Light Jackets

I love Jackets! Trench coat, leather, blazer, cardigans and hoodies etc..it's my top favorite apparel, but Singapore is warm throughout the year, so it can be quite uncomfortable wearing a jacket on the street, so light jackets are ideal. For me, I always bring a light denim jacket or a sweater/cardigan, just in case there is a specific dress code. A jacket will look more formal and presentable. Personally, I would rather be overdressed than being too causal in any parties and social events, but that's just me.😉

Black Leggings

If you are have a voluptuous body or a little curvy like me, LOL! A good fitting leggings can make you appear slimmer and taller. You can pair it with a nice tshirt, blouse/shirt etc. Best of all, leggings are light, breathable and so comfortable that you can wear them any day, anywhere...

Little Black Dress

I reckon all ladies should have at least one or two black basic dress. Like the Blue Jeans, it's a classic fashion piece that is never outdated. You can add layers, scarf, brooch, necklace, belt or other accessories to match the dress, it's great for parties, corporate functions, romantic dates, cocktails, dinners, etc..

Fashion Accessories

I'm a huge fan of fashion accessories and I never seem to get enough.lol..Accessories display our fashion taste and personal style. Adding a cool bracelet/bangle, necklace, headbands, earrings or shades can transform a plain and simple outfit.

Cap / Hats 

Some days when I'm busy with no time to style my hair, I just wear my baseball cap and a t-shirt with jeans or sweatpants and I'm all set & ready! It takes less than 15mins. Caps/Hats are so versatile, they are funky, great for outdoor activities under the sun and maybe bad hair days too.😅

 

Footwear / Shoes

They said the type of shoes you wear says a lot about you. I love sneakers and slip-on shoes, they are always trendy, youthful and cute! It's hard to look dowdy with a pair of well designed sneakers, but I would avoid slippers and flops for any outings, unless you are heading to the beach, market or coffee shop.

 

Light Make-Up

I appreciate natural beauty, but wearing some make-ups can conceal wrinkles, spots and dark circles. Make-up can enhance your features and appearance that makes you look fresher and radiant. A gorgeous outfit is completed with make-ups.

Bonus Tips :

Great fashion sense is choosing the right cuttings, designs, prints, fabric and colors that are suitable for your body shapes and skin tones.

 

Don't be too obsessed with the latest fashion, not all trends are suitable for everyone. Don't follow the crowd. Be bold and be creative with your authenticity! :) Go for the style that suits you most! It's better to wear something that makes you feel attractive than wearing an outfit that makes you feel awkward and contradict your personality. 

 

Keep in mind that fashion isn't solely for the perfect body shapes or age group, it's a common misconception when clothing companies and media industry portrays fashion & style with glamorous models and gorgeous celebrities. 

 

In my opinion, everyone can look stylish and be fashionable if they want to. Remember, you are never too old to dress up and look good!😘

 

 

I dress for myself, for various occasions. I like  being authentic, voguish & well-groomed and that makes me feel positive, empowered and confident about myself! 😎 

 

 "Style Is Eternal! Express Your Personality. Be Fashionable, Fun & Fabulous!"

So Mummies, what's your favorite fashion/styling tips? Feel free to share and comment below.

7 Things I Must Have In My Bag 👜

I believe a woman's bag tells a lot about her personality and style. 

You have read my earlier blog about my Mummy/Diaper bag but on regular days, there are 7 essential things that I always have in my bag. I wouldn't feel secure to step out of the house if I don't have these items.


 7 Things I Must Have In My Bag :

1) Lip Balm / Lip Gloss
I love natural pink rosy lips and somedays when I don't feel like putting on makeup, I just apply lip gloss or lip balm. Carmex is my favorite and I have been using it for years. When I was in Australia, I had chapped lips occasionally due to the different climate. This lip balm works great and moisturizes the lips with a cooling effect. Too bad I can't find them here in Singapore. I got them from Lazada.


2) Pocket Safety Alarm 

Singapore is a pretty safe country, but Low Crime Doesn't Mean No Crime! It's better to be safe than sorry. It's always good to stay vigilant and carry something to protect yourself, especially if you are always home late. I got this pocket alarm from Daiso, it's a cute baseball keychain and it has a really loud beep when you pull out the pin. (I hope I never have to use this!)


3) Contact Lens 

I have bad eyesight since school days. The optician recommended that I wear my glasses every day, (no way!) it's just so uncomfortable and I look so nerdy with glasses! 🤓 Anyway, I only wear them when I read, drive or attend seminars but since I started using contacts recently, I love it!!! I can see everything super clear now, even from a far distance...Wow! I felt like my eyes are reborn! 


4) Medicated Oil

I rarely use it. A small bottle can last me for years, lol. Once I was traveling with a friend on a train and she felt dizzy, I gave her this medicated oil and she felt much better after using it...
Well, you'll never know when a headache might strike or some tummy discomfort after a meal, etc. Who knows someone might just need this, so I always carry one in case of emergencies.


5) Wet Wipes / Tissues
Wet tissues are so useful, especially when you are eating fried chicken or peeling prawns and you just can't find any washroom nearby. I bring them everytime, everywhere! 


6) Earphones

Music is part of my life. I listen to music every day to relax and recharge. Good music makes me feel happy and energetic! I love some soulful and hip hop music on a long bus ride.


7) Fresh Mints
I have a weird habit of chewing candies randomly. These cooling mints are sugarfree and keep the breath fresh all day. 


...I'm always curious about what other women have in their bags so let me have a peek, ladies! Lol. Share with me what are the things you MUST have in your purse. Send me your comments! 😘


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What's Your Biggest Pet Peeve?⚠️

Let's talk about Pet Peeves.


Most people know I'm friendly, warm, fun-loving with a sense of humor. LOL! But we all have some things that annoy us and these are the things that really bugs me, big time!


My Top Pet Peeves are...

1) Lateness

OK, fashionable late is fine for some events. But sorry, I just can't stand people who are chronically late for everything! No one likes to wait. It's a terrible habit and they are always full of excuses! Well, time is precious and if you don't know what time is it? You need a watch.


2) Oversharing On Social Media / Flooding The Feeds
So you got a new car, a new house and a new sweetheart, that's awesome! The next thing you see their posts/pictures flooding everywhere and every day. Roger! we got your attention loud and clear.


3) Poor Customer Service
Customers are important. No one likes to be served with a bad attitude. Bad service brings bad reputation.(Duh!)


4) Skinny People Who Keep Saying They Are Fat
This has to be my top biggest pet peeve. Hey sweetie, people can see that you are not fat.Telling everyone that you are fat is not going to make you slim anyway. If you are truly unhappy with your body, hit the gym, change your diet or do something. Attention seekers are never cool!


5) Lying & Empty Promises
Everyone hates liars. If you have promised something, keep your words! If you can't be sure, then don't promise anything. I appreciate honesty a lot and I think honesty is the new sexy! 😘

6) Spammers

No one like to wake up to find 50 to 200 unread messages on their emails and WhatsApp...Wow! What's the commotion? 



7) Shaking Legs
I wonder why some people love shaking their legs. It looks so tiring and very unpleasant, not cute at all...


8) Chewing Food & Talking At The Same Time
Pardon? Sorry? I can't hardly hear what they are saying with a mouth stuffed with food...I am more worried that they might choke on their food. Please take your time to swallow your food before you speak.


9) Cutting In Line
Try standing for hours queuing for your favorite Bak Kwa (aka BBQ Jerky) and someone suddenly cut in the queue because they are 'in a hurry'. Hey stranger, try a better excuse next time! 


10) Not Picking Up Calls
Other than those unknown, suspicious callers and scam calls, etc.. (Ignore those calls) There must be a reason someone calls you. Please pick up the phone because it could be something urgent and important...Then why carry a phone when you don't intend to answer them?


11) Standing In The Middle Of The Crowd Or Walkway
Don't you just hate it when someone stands right in the middle of a shopping crowd or the walkway, blocking the way and talking on their phone, moving so slowly as though no one exists? Very inconsiderate!


12) PDA (Public Display of Affection)

I'm totally cool with PDA and love expressions. (Awww...) I think it's kinda sweet but if the couple is overdoing it...Ok Lovebirds! Please get a room...and if you are in school uniforms, I'll be worried for you, kid!




13) Posting/Tagging Photos Without Your Consent

This is just rude! I respect privacy. Well, not everyone like sharing their personal photos to the world and why do they always have to tag those unglamorous photos? Oh geez!...


14) Channel Surfing
It is so annoying when someone starts switching channels every few minutes when I'm watching a show. Please stop, my eyes hurt! 


15) Bullies

Bullying is wrong and I have a low tolerance for any form of bullying...Be kind always, Peace! ✌



...So that's about all but don't worry, I'm still a nice person overall.😙 Hey, let me know what are your pet peeves? Comment below or write to me. Till then, stick around lovelies! 😎


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We Are Beautiful! 🌟

Someone asked, "What Is Your Definition Of Beauty?" Ah, good question! 

In my early teens, I used to think that beauty means being slim, tall, having a nice body, good complexion, beautiful hair, good looks, etc... like the supermodels you find on fashion magazines & posters. Without a doubt, these women are gorgeous, stylish and I've always admired those fashion models doing the runway, dressed in cool designer outfits...Wow! they rock the stage, how glamorous! 

But as I mature into my adulthood, interacting with different people in life have broadened my perspective about beauty today... 

We all heard stories about young girls starving themselves, bulimia, crash dieting, skipping meals, doing many crazy stuff..just to be as slim like the models, because the society still view a slim body as beautiful and unfortunately... some people died while trying to lose weight! While it is not wrong to achieve your goals to be beautiful and to look your best (who doesn't?) but what is beauty if you lost your health/life?


I have to confess that I am one of those girls who tried crash dieting! (once) Yeah! I was a chubby teen in school, struggling with a weight problem and I'm sick of all the nasty name callings and in order to lose weight fast, I tried a diet plan and I ate ONLY fruits for 3 days and nothing else! Did it work? Naah..forget it! I felt so weak, lethargic and got sick in the end. It was a horrible experience for me so I figured that maybe such diet just doesn't work for people like me who love food,lol but I have friends who achieved good results with some diet programs but personally, I never believe in diets, (no thanks!) but that's just me! 😉



Though I may not be a Size 2 or have that perfect figure but I have lost some weight over the years. I am more active now and I feel energetic! I got many compliments from friends and even strangers too, and it definitely made me feel more confident about myself and I am happy the way I am today! Well, I think as long as you take some efforts to groom yourself, you can still look hot, cool and feel great even when you don't have the perfect body! 


It makes me really sad whenever I hear stories about girls starving themselves, who think they are fat & ugly because their boyfriends/partners think they need to lose weight. No offense and no hard feelings ok, but honestly, I would dump those guys! 😝


Look! If the dude only cares about your looks and your body, he's not a keeper! C'mon, who needs someone to keep reminding that you are imperfect and making you feel ugly! 


While being confident and happy about yourself, it doesn't mean you should eat whatever you like and gaining more weight? No! That's not the point! Excessive eating and obesity are definitely NOT encouraged for good health reasons but having some curves doesn't make you ugly! My point is, no one should be shamed for their body size. 


I strongly believe in self-love, self-care, living a healthy lifestyle and most importantly, do not compare yourself with anyone because I think everyone is unique and beautiful in their own ways. It took me a while to understand that true beauty isn't only about your body shapes and your appearance, etc.. Indeed, there are beauty inside and out! 


Perfection is a myth, so learn to love yourself, be who you are and appreciate the beauty you possess! We should focus on living healthy and keeping fit instead of trying to fit into a pair of skinny jeans or that mini-skirt but make you feel miserable, unhappy and hungry all day! Beauty isn't about how much you weigh or what you wear! Live for yourself and not what others want you to be! 

I agree that looks are important for most people, having good looks does score points in the society. However, sometimes, we may set our expectations too high and keep focusing on our flaws instead of the strength and the beauty that we have. 

Check out the videos below and I think all women/everyone should watch this... 

Beauty to me is being comfortable and confident for who you are! Happy girls are the prettiest and kind people are the most beautiful! For me, "There are no real ugly people in the world, only ugly personalities" ~ Mandy Law

There is beauty in everyone, don't let society define you that you forgot about your own beauty and style! 

Keep in mind that you are beautiful, you are unique, you are enough! 😎

Share this post to all the beautiful humans! 💖

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Have You Been Naughty Or Nice? 😈😇

As the bus drove by along Orchard Road...I glanced through the window looking at the busy streets filled with happy shoppers, beautiful lightings and fancy decorations...Yay! It's Christmas!!! My favorite time of the year...🎄🎅❤️

Every December, I would make my New Year resolutions and do a quick recap on the whole year events.

How have 2018 been 
for you? Have you been Naughty or Nice? Lol.😀

Honestly, I would say I've been a bit of both but mostly nice.😁 If you know me well enough, you know I'm always friendly, nice and warm to people who are genuine, kind and helpful. However, if anyone try to hurt or mess with my kids and family, I can be quite nasty that they can never imagine! So DON'T mess with the Mama Bear..Afterall, it's a maternal instinct for any mother to protect her children..Other than that, I'm as cool as a cucumber. LOL!

2018 has been another busy and eventful year for me..Mostly involving with my kids events, random contests, school life, some oversea trips, lots of fun parties/celebrations and gatherings with good friends. 

I'm very proud of my son who achieved an Integrity Award from his school. He scored 95% for moral education as well.(Welldone, baby!) The form teachers feedback about his good conducts and school grades. My daughter will be starting Pre-school in Jan 2019. She is super excited about school life, she carries her new school bag everyday, walking around the house, packing the crayons and color pencils into her bag.😁

My online business is doing pretty well this year and I'm grateful for the 100% positive feedback from my regular and new customers. Thank you all so much for the support. I've won some prizes from random lucky draws and costume contests earlier, very thankful to Lady Luck for being so kind and generous to me in the recent months! 😍🙏

I also made a couple of new friends and interesting people early this year that inspired me on the perspective of life.👍


As I recalled some unhappy past events, I realized that family is STILL the Most important thing in the world.. No amount of money can ever buy family love, loyalty and unity.

Indeed..What is happiness when you are rich with no family and true friends around you? No thanks! I wouldn't want to be rich but lonely! My family will always be my top priority. Nothing can replace them! I will always love and protect my family. Period!

I've also learned to keep a distance from the black sheeps and the troublemakers who caused some dramas earlier! It is so true that life is more peaceful when you stay away from negativeness and toxic people. I see a huge difference since...

Christmas is a season of giving, hope, joy and a wonderful time to spend with your family and love ones. I'm glad I've done my new year resolution and still have a little spare time to write a short blog today and do a shout-out here to all my readers, to wrap up 2018.


I hope 2019 bring more joy, laughters and blessings to everyone! Always treasure your family! Family bonding is very important if you want a happy home. Make time for them, organize family outings, have movie nights or do some sports together. Your work and money can wait! 😉

True happiness and wealth in life are things that money can't buy. You are truly rich and blessed when you have a family who stick together and always stand by you through good times and bad times. Keep in mind that a family who sticks together, stays together! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 💗

On this peaceful evening, I would like to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! May the holiday season fill your home with joy, your heart with love and your life with laughter. Have a fun celebration! Don't be in Santa's naughty list, folks! Lol! Do good and be kind always! 😘

For Love & Peace! ♥️✌️


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Tips On Managing Stress & Negative Emotions💡🆘

Let's talk about STRESS⚠️ 

Everyone experiences stress in daily life. Stress on work projects, family matters, parenting, relationships, financial, school exams, and the list goes on...

I have the opportunity to interact with people from different walks of life via phones, emails and social media lately and I realized that many are battling with stress/depression, so I thought I should blog on this subject and share my personal tips on how I deal with stress and my negative emotions. 

 
Now, take a moment to think...

Why do you feel stressed, unhappy, angry or depressed? What exactly is bothering you? Was it someone that pisses you? nasty remarks? some past incidents or bad experiences that upset you? Have a thought about that one! 

It is important to find out the ROOT of the problem that causes all these negative feelings. Without knowing what triggers stress, it's hard to deal with negative emotions. 

Well, you could find a psychiatrist or a therapist for help but they might not solve your problems because they won't be able to eliminate all your stress and negative feelings so ultimately, it is YOU who must help yourself to manage your emotions in a long run, because no one knows you better than yourself! 😉

Don't get me wrong, people! I have a lot of respect for doctors/physicians and their professions, they are very important in our society. I truly admire their medical knowledge and the sacred oath to save lives... 

Unfortunately, many people are struggling with prolonged stress and depression but they are unable to get much help and can't afford expensive therapy sessions.

 
So before you rush to get yourself diagnosed with Depression, Anxiety, etc.. you can try some tips and adjust your lifestyle with good habits & routines. If you feel that things are still not improving and you are getting more emotional...PLEASE seek professional help and see a doctor soon.

Here are my 12 Tips To Manage Stress -(*Contents for reference only, no medical information intended)

Tip #1: Organize Your Time. Don't rely on your memory, use a diary or a notepad. Set reminders alarms on your phone for daily important tasks and upcoming appointments. 

Tip #2: Don't Skip Breakfast. It is the most important meal of the day. Don't start the day with an empty stomach because you may feel restless and unfocused at work/school. Hence, making mistakes that cause stress again. Drink enough water every day, I like Green Tea, Flower Tea and fruit juice, they are so good and refreshing.👍

Tip #3: Don't stay at home all day. Go out! Inhale the scent of nature, get some fresh air and Sunshine! 🌞 You can take a walk at the beach/park /garden/ or just taking a bus ride and do some light shopping at the mall. Keep yourself occupied with some things to do so you don't have too much free time to overthink. 

Tip #4: Turn on the radio and listen to some music! Good music can reduce stress and brightens up your day. Watch a comedy and have a good laugh! Laughter is often the best healer and it doesn't cost a cent! 😍

Tip #5: Do some Sports. You don't have to be a professional athlete. Sweat it out! A good workout can help reduce stress. I play Basketball and I enjoy shooting the ball into the basket and it reminds me that as long as you keep moving and stay focused, you'll reach your goals! It's a pretty cool sport.. not only it makes you slimmer, but it also makes you fitter too! 😘

Tip #6: Meditate for 10-15 mins every day if you can. Find a quiet place, visualize the flowing water or the sea waves and control your breathing. You can use diffusers if you are into Aromatherapy like me. My favorite is, Ylang-Ylang, Tea Tree and Chamomile.

Tip #7: Have some dark chocolates or light Ice-creams. I have sweet tooth and I do feel happier after having some yummy desserts, but do not eat them every day,  especially if you are on a diet.Lol 😁

Tip #8: Stay away from toxic people! You don't need negative vibes from them to add more stress. Hang around with happy, positive people who are fun, friendly, helpful and supportive. You'll feel more lively and happier too.


Tip #9: Take a long beauty bath and pamper yourself! Go for body massage if you can spend a bit or ask your partner to give you a massage, Lol.. that way, you can have some romantic couple time without spending too much money. (Bonus!)👍


Tip #10: Get Enough Sleep. Be nice to your body. Good sleep is important for both the young and old, it helps to reduce stress but make sure your bedroom is well-ventilated and clean. I don't think anyone can really have a good sleep in a stuffy and cluttered room.


Tip #11: Take Pride in your Appearance. You don't have to dress like a Fashion chic or a Supermodel but basic grooming is still necessary, because when you dress well and look good, you feel more confident and great about yourself too, well..who doesn't like compliments, right? 😊That's a huge boost to reduce stress.


Tip #12: Set Realistic Goals. You are not a robot or Superman. There is no need to push yourself so hard to achieve all your goals in the shortest time. We are not in a race, so move at your own pace that you feel comfortable. There is no need to follow the majority crowd. It is OK to be different! Don't create unnecessary competitions for yourself. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses.

These are some tips on how I deal with my daily emotions. Stress is NOT a disease, it doesn't always need long term medication or therapy in my opinion. 

However, if stress is not well-controlled, it can lead to more serious mental health problems like depression, panic attacks, anxiety, low self-esteem, self-harm and even suicides. 

Be mindful that there will be many different challenges in life and stress is unavoidable, but we can learn to take charge and control our emotions and mental health. Feed your mind with happy thoughts and positive vibes because only YOU have the ability to control your emotions. Remember, it's just a bad day...NOT a bad life! 😎😘

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Special Announcement & Updates 📣

Hey guys! I have been super busy lately but I thought I should update my loyal readers here in case anyone misses me...LOL! Wonder where have I been lately...? Slaying bullies & villains?😝 Naah..I'll save those actions for later perhaps...Hehe!😙

Well..I'm still very active on social network daily, especially Instagram. Recently, my blog was shared actively on social media and I have been invited for paid Ad-hoc assignments to write reviews for some products, services and Parenting advice...So now you know why I haven't blog for awhile here because I have been doing alot of writing privately...😉

Last month, I hosted an AMA discussion on Amafeed.com It's a great experience and I really enjoy interacting with the audiences. Wow! Some of the questions are pretty interesting and I am happy to share my thoughts there and via emails on the related topics of my AMA/blog niche.

Meanwhile.. you can check out my AMA link here 👉 mommywarrior77 is on AMAfeed.com  to understand more about me and perhaps you could benefit from the advise and thoughts that I shared on my AMA.Who knows! 😊

I may be hosting another AMA discussion, hopefully soon when I'm done with all my assignments and some private stuff but don't worry..Blogging Is My Passion so I will still continue to Blog and put my emotions and thoughts into words...I have also drafted out some tasteful topics/contents that I think my readers may be interested, so do stick around! 😁

Anyway, if you can't remember my URL or blog address, links, etc... just go to Google Search and type, "mommywarrior77" You'll find me on the top main feeds and all my recent posts on my social media accounts.

Ah yes... last but not least, I would also like to take this opportunity to thank the ladies (BN Admin) who messaged me earlier on FB and introduced AMA. 

I'm very grateful and feel honored that my AMA/blog was featured on their Facebook & Instagram. I truly appreciate the boost of awareness and I like to thank all the readers and my followers who spent time reading my blogs and the comments on my AMA.😘

Go on! #Ask Me Anything, lol..Please feel free to write to me if you have any questions related the my blog topics / niches. I am pleased to share my knowledge and personal advise to anyone. Till then..Stay connected! Be Kind & Be Nice...Peace!😎✌️


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