10 Things What Women Really Want🌹

"A woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets..."

Remember this famous quote from the movie, Titanic? (I've watched it for at least 5times.lol)

So the notion of the quote may be true...but getting to know women is not as hard as you think, but it is indeed important to understand what women really want instead of guessing what's on her mind, that can save you a lot of rejections, heartaches, cold wars and unhappy relationships.

Men often think women are hard to please, without a clue what's going on...How many times we heard the guys complaining to their buddies, "I don't know what's wrong with my girlfriend?", "I don't know what my wife wants from me?" 

Okay dudes! It's pretty simple. Your partner wants time, she wants your attention and she wants you! 😉

We understand men are not mind readers and no one have time for mind games anyway, we get it!  However, we can't always tell men what to do and what we want from them, after all, being demanding and controlling can causes red flags too.

But there are ways to tell what a woman wants, from her body language, her gestures, eye contacts and the tone of her voice. If you take some efforts to understand women better, you'll soon unlock the 'secrets' and even enhance the relationship.

Whether you are married, in a relationship or just started dating, here are some information and tips to help you understand what women really wants. (Dear men/husbands, please take some time to read this.😁) 

1. Communication

Proper communication is the key ingredient in every long-lasting, healthy relationship. Talk often, share your dreams and goals. Listen without judging and don't interrupt even when you don't agree with her views and beliefs. The objective of good communication is not to debate or to create a fight, but an interaction to listen and understand your partner better.

2. Respect

No relationship can survive without respect. Respect comes in many forms. Always treat a woman right! No one likes to be disrespected and mistreated in an abusive relationship. If you treat her like a Queen, she will treat you like a King! 👑

3. Saying (I Love You)

It doesn't matter how long you've been married or how long you have been together. The 3 magic words never gets old. I know some guys are too shy to express themselves and feel mushy to say those words out loud, but you can look into her eyes and whisper in her ears. Your partner love hearing those words but make sure you say it sincerely from your heart.

4. Be True and Faithful

No woman wants a player or a heart-breaker! It's never cool to toy with feelings, if you can't commit in a serious relationship and be true to her, you need to back off and let her go.

5. Affection (Hugs, cuddles & kisses)

Women wants quality couple time, just the two of you. In my opinion, there is no such thing as too much cuddles and kisses in a relationship. Physical intimacy is a couple bond, a connection with your partner and affection strengthens relationship. Give her the attention she needs. Everyone loves to feel needed and wanted.

6. Understanding and Supportive

We all have bad days or feeling under the weather sometimes. Give her some space, offer some comforts and listening ears instead of blaming her for being moody. Show her that you love and care for her. Women want men to be there for her and to work things out together. Relationship is a teamwork and it takes two to tango.

7. Protection and Sense of Security

Every woman loves a man who protects her and keep her safe, knowing that you will always have her back makes her feel loved, valued and cherished.  

8. Holding Hands

I can't speak for all the women on this one but I personally love holding hands, it makes me feel warm and comforting. Awww...how lovey-dovey when I see couples holding hands on the street or at the beach...Take my hand, honey! 👫

9. Surprises

Guys, we don't need diamonds, flowers, expensive gifts or fancy dinners to make us happy. Sweet surprises can be anything like buying a snack/dessert that she is craving for, a cute plushie that she like or breakfast in bed etc...it's the effort and sincerity that matters!

10. Compliments and Praises

Do you remember when is the last time you praise your partner? The fact is, you don't need to be a sweet talker and find the perfect words to say something nice. If your partner look gorgeous in that dress, cooks a nice meal or does something extra special for you. Thank her and let her know you appreciate it. Who doesn't love some compliments, right? Never take anything and anyone for granted!

There you go! I hope this information help but I'm sure there are more to add to the list. I am not a dating/relationship expert here, but I believe these are the top list that what women want from their partner in a serious and committed relationship.

So ladies, what do you think? Share with me and comment below if I miss out anything and share this blog with your friends if you love the tips.😎

Dating Advice : The DOs and DON'Ts ⚠️

So, I hung out with my good friends the other day and we were chatting about our best/worst dates...and I thought maybe I should blog on this topic today! 😊

Well, I'm not a dating expert here, but I'm not new to dating so I'll share my personal experience, some advice and tips with the readers. 

If you are searching for Mr/Ms Right, but hasn't had much progress so far and wonder what went wrong, here are some dating advise/tips for reference. 

We all know that First Impression is very important, so it is necessary to know the DOs & DON'Ts and some safety tips on the first date.

        

1) Be Punctual

I know unforeseen events are unavoidable and if you are late, do make a call to explain and apologize sincerely. I don't like being late and nobody enjoys waiting. I'm always slightly earlier or on time. People who are punctual always give me the best impression because it tells me how well they manage the time and how much they value the date/appointment. 

2) Dress Appropriately

You don't have to dress like a Superstar or wear a tuxedo on your first date but basic grooming is still necessary. Wear something smart, neat and comfortable that fit the occasion. Remember, it is a date, NOT an interview! But avoid wearing singlets, sweatpants, shorts and slippers unless you are meeting at the beach, bbq, etc... 

3) Maintain Gentle Eye Contact and Smile 

The eyes are the window to the soul and I believe eyes don't lie! I know some people are very shy and they avoid looking into the eyes, but if your eyes are wandering elsewhere during a conversation, your date may feel that you are bored and uninterested. However, if you keep staring into the eyes, that could make some people feel uneasy too. So just be natural, smile and look at the face when they speak. 

4) Put Down The Phone

Mobile phones are so important in our daily life and I know most people are attached to their phones, all the time!...checking their social media, emails, texting and playing online games etc..but if you are constantly checking and tapping your phone every few mins, then you are not giving full attention to your date and that is not going to leave any good impression for sure! 

5) Relax and Take It Easy

Some people get really nervous on a first date. They start to tense up, fidget and become clumsy at times. I once went on a dinner date...The poor guy was so nervous that he knocked over the glass a few times and had to rush to the washroom to clean up. Omg, it was hilarious! So just chill and breathe... 

6) Keep The Conversation Fun and Interesting

There may be awkward moments of silence when you can't think of any interesting topics to break the ice and to keep the conversation going. I would suggest talking about hobbies, music, movies and interests for a start and take it from there... Don't be the only one talking, ask questions and let the conversation flow.

Jokes are fine but keep it mild on the first date! Nobody wants to date someone who acts like a clown. Laughing and cracking jokes throughout the dinner aren't very cool! Avoid dirty jokes / dark humor on a first date because it may be inappropriate and offensive for some people, so do be more sensitive.

7) NEVER Talk About Your Ex!!! (A Big No-No!)

Indeed! You probably heard this a thousand times! Talking about your ex on your first date is never encouraged! That is one of the Biggest deal breaker! I do think most people are aware but sometimes.. words, places, songs may trigger past memories and they start talking about their ex unintentionally, without realizing a huge mistake they made! 

Be careful not to get too emotional on your first date. No one likes to hear sad, break up stories so it's time to let go and move on...Let history be history! especially when you are dating someone new. 

If a guy start talking about his ex-girlfriends on our first date. He probably will never hear from me again! lolz! I do understand everyone has a past but if someone keeps talking about their past relationships then they are probably not ready to start a new relationship, in my opinion.

8) Be Polite

Maybe the person isn't what you are looking for or maybe there isn't any chemistry...but you can still be friends! There is no need to get upset or feel depressed."There are plenty of fish in the sea!" It's no big deal if the date didn't work out.

9) Don't Move Too Fast

Ok dudes! I know she is cute, sweet and attractive but don't get too physical/intimate on the first date! Take it slow and watch the body language. If your date is not ready, don't keep pushing and trying so hard, because that will only push her away in the end! Surely you don't want to scare her, so be respectful and a real gentleman! 😎

10) Arrange The Next Date 

If the date went well and you would like to meet up again... Be spontaneous and make the first move! Don't wait too long to ask her out again. You can plan a movie date, an outing, picnic, sports, etc..

11) Meet At Public Places 

NEVER meet in secluded places, hotel rooms or an apartment. Always let a trusted friend know you are meeting someone on a date, so they have some information and know your whereabouts.

12) Stay Away From Alcohol

It doesn't matter how well you hold the liquor. Alcohol can cause serious danger! (If you get drunk) I'm sure you have heard scary stories and nasty news of victims on their first date. Unfortunately, scammers and con-artists are everywhere! Always stay alert and trust your gut. If you don't feel right, leave immediately! 

If you must use the washroom..Never drink the same glass when you are back! (just to be safe!) It is OK not to finish everything, you can always ask for a new glass if you must drink. 

While dating can be fun and it's exciting to meet new people but it's also important to protect yourself always...I hope these information helps. 

Have fun and be safe! 😘

Do you have any dating stories, advice / tips to share?...Comment below. 

Blogger Mommywarrior77 

What's On Netflix? (Love Is In The Air) 💘

Someone once asked me, "What Is Love?..."💘

Well, that's a very interesting question...because we all have different perspectives and definitions of LOVE. 

For me, LOVE is a sweet feeling that makes your heart skip a beat! You think about that special someone all the time, you feel excited and maybe a little head over heels every time you see him/her. Love is wanting that person to be happy and safe always. Love is definitely what you do, rather than what you say because actions don't lie and that's my notion about Love.💕

People say life is like a movie and since Feb is a month of Love and Valentine's Day is just a few days away. Let's talk about romance movies today.

Besides horror, thriller, comedy... I'm a big fan of love/romance movies too! Ok, I gotta' admit I'm a hopeless romantic! LOL! I strongly believe in love...not because I've never been hurt nor I believe in fairytale relationships etc.. but it's because my heart don't lie when I fall in love...


Here's a list of my favorite love/romance movies :

1) Titanic
I have to put this one FIRST on the list because I've watched it at least 5 times, some scenes still make me cry today. "I'll never let go, Jack!" and my heart will go on...Pass me some tissues, please!

2) The Best Of Me
Perhaps this movie may remind you of your high school sweetheart. 

3) Jerry Maguire
Tom Cruise is one of my favorite actors and I never forget that famous line from the movie. "You complete me...You had me at hello!" Awww...




4) Ghost
A Supernatural romance movie... Til death do us part! 



5) Moulin Rouge
I love that song "Come What May" Nicole Kidman looked stunning and elegant in her diamond costume.


6) There's Something About Mary
All the guys tried so hard to get Mary and the best man won her love in the end.

7) Love Actually 
"To me, you are perfect! " My favorite quote from the movie...Sweet!

8) What Women Want
Ok guys! please go and watch this movie if you want to know what women Really want.😙

9) Shallow Hal

I guess size/body shapes doesn't matter when you found true love.

10) The Wedding Singer
This one is sure to make you laugh and feel touched when Robbie (Adam Sandler) sang the song, "I wanna' grow old with you" on the plane. How sweet!...

Let me know what's your favorite romance/love movies? Time to Netflix and Chill... To Love & Be Loved! Happy weekend folks! 😘 

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