Fashion and Styling Tips For Moms : Express Your Style!

             

                 

 

Fashion is a form of self-expression that present our attitude, style and personality. Good dressing sense boost our confidence, self-esteem and physical attractions. In our society, it's important to dress appropriately, the clothing we wear reflects our identity, it does make an impact and first impression.

As a busy mom, there are drastic days when I feel overwhelmed and burnt-out with messy hair and baggy tees, it's indeed challenging to look cool and fashionable when there are so many tasks and mummy duties everyday, but that doesn't mean we can't be a stylish mom! :)

 

I love fashion and I like checking out the latest trends for the seasons. Since I work from home, I don't have to dress like the OL (*Office Ladies). I go for comfort and style in general. My dressing style is mostly Urban / Street-Wear fashion for regular days, however, for special/important occasions and business events, I dress formal.

Here's my personal fashion & styling tips that may give you some ideas to look more chic and sleek!

        

 

Fashion and Styling Tips For Moms :

 

Light Jackets

I love Jackets! Trench coat, leather, blazer, cardigans and hoodies etc..it's my top favorite apparel, but Singapore is warm throughout the year, so it can be quite uncomfortable wearing a jacket on the street, so light jackets are ideal. For me, I always bring a light denim jacket or a sweater/cardigan, just in case there is a specific dress code. A jacket will look more formal and presentable. Personally, I would rather be overdressed than being too causal in any parties and social events, but that's just me.😉

Black Leggings

If you are have a voluptuous body or a little curvy like me, LOL! A good fitting leggings can make you appear slimmer and taller. You can pair it with a nice tshirt, blouse/shirt etc. Best of all, leggings are light, breathable and so comfortable that you can wear them any day, anywhere...

Little Black Dress

I reckon all ladies should have at least one or two black basic dress. Like the Blue Jeans, it's a classic fashion piece that is never outdated. You can add layers, scarf, brooch, necklace, belt or other accessories to match the dress, it's great for parties, corporate functions, romantic dates, cocktails, dinners, etc..

Fashion Accessories

I'm a huge fan of fashion accessories and I never seem to get enough.lol..Accessories display our fashion taste and personal style. Adding a cool bracelet/bangle, necklace, headbands, earrings or shades can transform a plain and simple outfit.

Cap / Hats 

Some days when I'm busy with no time to style my hair, I just wear my baseball cap and a t-shirt with jeans or sweatpants and I'm all set & ready! It takes less than 15mins. Caps/Hats are so versatile, they are funky, great for outdoor activities under the sun and maybe bad hair days too.😅

 

Footwear / Shoes

They said the type of shoes you wear says a lot about you. I love sneakers and slip-on shoes, they are always trendy, youthful and cute! It's hard to look dowdy with a pair of well designed sneakers, but I would avoid slippers and flops for any outings, unless you are heading to the beach, market or coffee shop.

 

Light Make-Up

I appreciate natural beauty, but wearing some make-ups can conceal wrinkles, spots and dark circles. Make-up can enhance your features and appearance that makes you look fresher and radiant. A gorgeous outfit is completed with make-ups.

Bonus Tips :

Great fashion sense is choosing the right cuttings, designs, prints, fabric and colors that are suitable for your body shapes and skin tones.

 

Don't be too obsessed with the latest fashion, not all trends are suitable for everyone. Don't follow the crowd. Be bold and be creative with your authenticity! :) Go for the style that suits you most! It's better to wear something that makes you feel attractive than wearing an outfit that makes you feel awkward and contradict your personality. 

 

Keep in mind that fashion isn't solely for the perfect body shapes or age group, it's a common misconception when clothing companies and media industry portrays fashion & style with glamorous models and gorgeous celebrities. 

 

In my opinion, everyone can look stylish and be fashionable if they want to. Remember, you are never too old to dress up and look good!😘

 

 

I dress for myself, for various occasions. I like  being authentic, voguish & well-groomed and that makes me feel positive, empowered and confident about myself! 😎 

 

 "Style Is Eternal! Express Your Personality. Be Fashionable, Fun & Fabulous!"

So Mummies, what's your favorite fashion/styling tips? Feel free to share and comment below.

✅ Self-Care Tips For Moms

Ok Mommies, now that the kids are back to school, you deserve some 'me-time' to relax and revitalize! Parenting is a lot of hard work, commitments, responsibilities and the list goes on...

This year, I can finally have more time for myself when both my kids are in the same school. For parents who have a Jubilee baby (SG50), I'm sure you were feeling anxious and excited for their first day in primary school. (I took lots of photos & videos on that special day!😊) My daughter is adapting well and make many new friends, I'm glad she didn't cry and she enjoy going to school with her elder brother.

Having the extra hours to myself is a luxury of freedom that I've been waiting for so long...Well, if you have a helper/nanny, grandparents, in-laws or any relatives who can help you out with the little ones, (lucky you!) you probably won't resonate my excitement, but for many moms like myself who are literally the sole caregiver for our kids with no helper, no in-laws/guardians and a hubby who works long hours/oversea etc..(I feel you and I'm so proud of you..Well done, Mommies!) You gotta' give yourself credits for the versatility and multi-tasking! Nonetheless, all mothers deserve the recognition for the unconditional love and sacrifices for the family.👍

The lunar new year festive is the busiest time for moms and the current outbreak narrative is intoxicating and disheartening. It greatly affect our emotions and morale, so it's important that we practice daily self-care to maintain healthy physical & mental well-being.

Here are some Self-Care Tips / Ideas and my personal advice for busy Moms :

1. Be Organised. (Plan Your Time)

It's never easy balancing work and family life, but with proper time management and good habits, you can get the jobs done on schedule.

Prioritize the important/urgent tasks and set a daily/weekly routine for work, kids, couple time, family bonding, house chores, etc..A routine will guide you to manage the daily tasks productively. 

Don't overwork. The truth is, work will never end! Always spend quality time with your children and your partner at the end of the day.

For me, my children comes first and my family will always be my top priority. I am grateful that I am financially stable, I prefer to work for myself, to have the flexibility to schedule my work at my own pace, doing things that I desire!

2. Take Catnap.(30 - 45 mins)

A power nap during mid-day is a great booster, it allows our body & mind to relax and recharge in a hibernate mode. When we have enough rest, we feel refreshed, more energetic and function better. Happiness is an afternoon nap! 💤

3. Eat Well & Drink More Water. (Enjoy Your Favorite Food)

Food are great pleasure and comfort! Good food brings good mood! When I have a busy schedule with writing assignments and zoom sessions, I hardly have time to sit down comfortably to enjoy a warm, decent meal. It's usually a quick bite or instant food,lol..But now, I can have long, undisturbed lunch, enjoying my flower tea and eating my favorite sushi in my Snoopy pajamas!😅

4. Talk To A Friend. (Call, Text, Facetime!)

Deep conversations/chatting with a good friend is heartwarming..You'll feel much better after you talk it out and release your emotions. Everyone needs a good listener, someone who is supportive, who understand the situations and never judge. If you have a dear friend who is willing to listen to your endless rants with patience and kindness, cherish that special bond & friendship, true friends are blessings!

5. Beauty Routines. (Look Good For Yourself!)

Pamper yourself and be nice to your body. Take a long bath, style up your hair or wear a new outfit! Looking good makes you feel great and confident. In my opinion, fashion and grooming shouldn't stop when you become a mother and every mom can look her best! "Mommy, when is the last time you paint your nails? do your make-up? and visit the spa/salons?" Maybe it's time to indulge and shower yourself some tender loving care. 😘

6. Listen To Music.(Sing, Dance, TikTok!)

Music is the best therapy! It creates a fun and lively ambiance. Whenever I feel under the weather, I would sing out loud, make random Tiktok videos, play my Ukulele / Guitar and it makes me feel better instantly. Like a magic pill, music never fails to brighten up my day! 🌞

       

I firmly believe that Music has the power to inspire, to heal and to connect our deep emotions. Through many tough times and struggles as a mother, music is always there for me and it's been a huge part of my life now..I guess you can't go wrong with music! 😎

7. Stay Calm and Control Your Emotions. (Protect Your Peace!)

Random topics, news, events and people may trigger some tensions and conflicts. Keep your cool and chill! Be wise and walk away from bad vibes and drama. Be selective, don't fight battles that don't matter! Not everything requires your reaction and attention. Sometimes, PEACE is better than being right!

It's Okay To Not Be Okay...

Motherhood is exhausting, demanding and a relentless journey, some days are intense and insane! 

But it's normal to experience negative emotions, frustrations, disappointments and meltdowns... but remember, DO NOT trap yourself in a 'mental prison'. Divert your thoughts, visions and focus on the positivity in every situation. The bad days will pass! 

    

Listen to your body and don't be too hard on yourself. Don't feel guilty if you can't do everything in a day, it's never selfish to take a break and rest...You don't need to be a Wonder Woman to save the world! We are only humans, it's OK to take one step at a time.

You are in charge of your own happiness! Self-care is much needed in our drastic lifestyle today, it is imperative that mothers need to replenish physical & emotional energy in order to provide the best care for the family. 

            

Be kind to yourself and take time to do what makes you happy. Make Self-care a priority every day! 🥰

"Live Well, Laugh Often, Love Much!"❤

What's your daily self-care tips? Share with me and comment below! 😉

(*Disclaimer : The information provided on this blog is based on personal experience and for reference purposes. No medical advice intended. Please consult your local healthcare physicians for diagnosis and medical treatments - Mommywarrior77)

The Myths Of Motherhood ⚠️

Ok mama! I'm sure we've all heard some myths of motherhood.

I remember when I became a mother. Friends, relatives and even random strangers will offer some interesting information about motherhood; the classic myths, the old wives tales but sadly, social phenomenon can sometimes do more harm than help and that makes motherhood a lot harder than it is. 

Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love being a mom and I'm thankful to have 2 lovely children but the struggle is real! From conception, pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding and parenting...The different stages of motherhood brings different emotions of excitement, fear, joy and many overwhelming experiences. 

The journey of motherhood is challenging but it's definitely worth it! However, many misinformation and misconceptions can often caused moms to get judged brutally and unfairly, these myths impact many moms that made them feel bad, guilty and shamed. 

Here are some myths that I have heard, in my journey of motherhood...

Myth #1 : "Breastfeeding help you lose weight..."

Well, I heard this one all the time but too bad it didn't work for me!Lol. I breastfeed for about 15months for my firstborn and the truth is (*at least in my personal experience) I get super hungry after I breastfeed many times a day and I actually eat more, I don't see a significant drop on the scale so this one is busted! (*for me)

Myth #2 : "Breastfeeding is a natural thing!" 

We all know "Breast Is Best" and I fully support breastfeeding campaigns and giving our babies the best nutrients, but sometimes it's not always easy for new mothers. Breastfeeding is a process that requires patience, determination and proper techniques.

Personally, I love the bonding and the skin-to-skin contact when I nurse my baby but breastfeeding can be uncomfortable, exhausting and inconvenience especially when you are in public places and there is no nursing room nearby. It can be quite embarrassing when the milk leaks, imagine walking around with a soaked blouse, oh gosh! Nonetheless, my breastfeeding journey has been a memorable experience but I don't miss it! 😅

I strongly believe every mom wants the best for their child so whether you breastfeed for a month, for a year or even longer, it doesn't make you less or more of a mother. 

I see many new moms struggling with breastfeeding, feeling immense shame for poor lactation and blaming themselves for not providing enough breast milk. Please don't be too hard on yourself, mummies! Not all moms have a milk supply of a fountain. Breastfeed as long as you can and it's OK to stop when you need to. 

Myth #3 : "A mom should dress like a mom." 

This is one hilarious remark! I mean seriously, is there actually a mom's 'outfit'? Ok, I get the point but in my opinion, I feel that every mom should allow to dress whatever that makes them feel beautiful, comfortable and confident. There is nothing wrong if the mom wants to wear the mini skirt or that bikini, etc...The way we dress has nothing to do with the status of motherhood.  

Myth #4 : "You are the mom, you should fix the problems!"

We often see people pointing fingers and start blaming the poor mother when the child misbehaved. People are too quick to judge without a clue what exactly happened. Hang on! Moms are not problem solvers, we are only humans. Be kind to mothers, we are learning, we trying very hard everyday, we get tired and we made mistakes too. Be more supportive and encouraging instead of mom-shaming. 

Myth #5 : "Csection isn't a real birth..." 

The controversy of Cesarean vs Natural Birth is totally pointless. What matters most is the safety of the baby and the mother. 

I had Csect twice, probably the most nerve-wrecking ordeal of my life when the gynecologist told me I had to go for an emergency c-section when the dilation was slow. I was scared and didn't know what to expect but I didn't care about the procedure and how long the recovery would takes, all I wanted was to bring my baby out safely. 

Not all labors are fast and smooth, some are long and traumatic. The birthing methods should never define the labor of love and motherhood. All births are amazing, it doesn't matter how it happens, both takes much courage and strength.💪😎

Myth #6 : "You will enjoy being a mom every day!" 

As much as I love my kids and they are my world, but there are some days I wish I can take a day off, just relax, do my own stuff and hang out with my besties. Kids can sometimes get you so annoyed and stressed-out with their constant whining and tantrums. We all have bad days, mummies need a little break and some space too. 

Myth #7 : "Asking for help is a sign of weakness..."

No, surely not! Mothers are multi-taskers and they play many roles. It is not humanly possible to manage everything alone! We all need help from time to time, so don't feel weak to ask for help, it's better to get some help than dealing with all the meltdowns that could affect your emotions and mental well-being.

As mothers, we need to take care of ourselves first in order to take care of the children and our family. Don't be afraid to reach out for some support and assistance. 

The judgement from society can be unjustified and cruel, we need to detach the myths of motherhood from reality, besides, there is no fixed formula for motherhood. Every child and every situation is different, do not let negative beliefs and stereotype criticism affect your role as a mother. Do what is best for your children and the family! 😉

"A mother's love is instinctual, unconditional and forever..."

What are some interesting myths you heard, share with me and comment below.

Product Review - Gaston Luga Backpack🎒

I'm crazy about bags...and backpack is one of the top item on my shopping list! Well, you can never have too many backpacks! 😉

As an outdoorsy mom with 2 young kids, I'm always looking for a 'special' backpack that fits everything that I need when I'm out. 

Though there are many different type of bags out there, but backpack is one of my favorite because it allows hand-free movement, so I can always hold onto my kids while shopping, it's much easier to carry around for long hours. 

Personally, I go for style, comfort and quality. I love a backpack that is handy, durable and versatile that I can use it daily without the need to keep changing bags.

I received this cool (Parlan-Black) Backpack from @gastonluga and I love it! 

It's stylish, elegant and trendy. I picked this design because I always love the classic black and it's easy to match most outfits. Black is my favorite color and it never goes out of fashion!

I love that this backpack is lightweight, water-resistant with a smooth finishing touch and the craftsmanship is excellent! 

Most backpacks are pretty rugged and muscular, but this one's got a soft and delicate feel. It's comfortable to carry around all day, not hefty or too chunky, just the right size for ladies.

It has many compartments to organize my stuff. I use it as a daypack and it fits my Ipad, diary and cosmetics nicely. I love that has a concealed back compartment to keep my personal valuables, like passport or driving license, etc.

It's perfect for busy moms like me, great for work, travel or leisure. I would recommend this to those who love sleek designs and premium quality backpacks.

Gaston Luga is a brand from Stockholm, Sweden. Their backpacks are designed for comfort, style and more, suitable for both men and women for all occasions.

If you are looking for a stylish backpack for yourself or as gifts, check out Gaston Luga Official Website for more designs and backpacks collection. 

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"Style is a reflection of your personality, wear your backpack in style!" 😎

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