Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Younger

Have you ever wondered what would your life be if you had taken a different route on your career, relationships and goals etc...

I had a deep conversation with a good friend recently that triggered some flashback memories...

 

Over the years, I've learned many important lessons on the philosophy of life and humanity. I must admit that there are some things I wish I knew earlier that would probably saved my time and perhaps make better life choices. Nevertheless, I will share some random thoughts and my heartfelt advice from these valuable life lessons and hope it evaluates your wisdom and perspectives too.

Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Younger...

Set Boundaries

Be careful of the kindness and generosity you give. Unfortunately, many people are takers without gratitude. If you are an Empath like me, it is extremely important to set boundaries to protect yourself from being taken for granted and drained by energy vampires. Set your limits, too much empathy can be harmful. Don't ever burn yourself out to keep others warm.⚠️

Don't try to fit in a group and be a people pleaser just because you are afraid to stand alone. Standing alone is better than being disrespected. Understand that not everyone will like you and that's OK. If they don't appreciate your kindness and reciprocate your efforts, these are not your people and you are in the wrong tribe.

Grades Don't Define Intelligence

I know this is not a favorite opinion.lol, but I will say it anyway. Higher education doesn't always make someone smarter or superior than the rest. Keep in mind that a smart and successful business man doesn't have to be a Math genius. Doing well in schools doesn't mean you'll do well in life. School and working life is a totally different setting. Many intelligent, wealthy and successful people I know never had a degree, so don't berate yourself and devalue your worth! It is superficial and stereotype to judge intelligence solely on academic grades. Intelligence and wisdom is a lot more than just papers.(I do agree with Mr. Elon Musk!😊)

 

  

Age Doesn't Define Maturity

Maturity is reflect on how a person react and respond to various circumstances. It's about responsibility, accountability, self-discipline and the right attitude. Don't be fooled by age, a 40yo could still 'act' like a 14yo on how they handled situations and crisis.

 

True Beauty Is Being Who You Are

Most women feel insecure about their weight, because being 'thin' is projected as the beauty standard in the society, but what is physical beauty if you have a bad character? For me, there is no ugly people, only ugly personalities! Babes, you gotta' stop comparing yourself with the runway models and celebrities. 

Beauty comes in different sizes and shapes. You are gorgeous if you have a great personality and a beautiful soul! We all have some flaws and no one is perfect. True beauty and attraction is being confident in your own skin and being happy for who you are!

 

Time Is Precious, Don't Waste it!

Sometimes we may postpone our plans waiting for the 'right' time but accomplished nothing in the end! 

Procrastination is the thief of time, it cause delays, disorientation and missed opportunities. In my honest opinion, there is NO PERFECT timing for anything, so be flexible and realistic. Create opportunities in the present. If you are always waiting for a "Miracle", you may end up waiting for years and feeling disappointed when you lost all the motivation and passion when your age is catching up. 

Don't waste your time and find more excuses... Focus what you really want and do it NOW! I regret wasted so much time in the wrong jobs, people, places and choices that I wish I could undo my mistakes but now, I truly know what I want and my purpose in life.

The Perfect Dream Lover Don't Exist!

No marriages or relationship is all sunshine and lovey-dovey. Yes, I am a hopeless romantic who believes in true love, but the ecstatic and infinity love story of "Romeo & Juliet" don't exist in the real world. Every couples have some issues and good relationships are built on a strong foundation with patience, trust, forgiveness, empathy, support and surviving the storms together.

Don't Tell Anyone Everything

A friend today could be an enemy tomorrow! Don't be too trusting with people, not everyone is genuine and loyal to you. They could be smiling in front of you and stab you at the back. A fake and jealous 'friend' could betray you anytime, so the less information they know, the safer you are, what people don't know can't be ruined.😘

        

Hope Is NOT A Strategy

People will tell you "Not to lose hope..." but these are words of comfort that doesn't serve much purpose nor solutions, but don't get me wrong, I am not saying we should give up hope, but 'Hope' itself is NEVER a strategy. If you want to achieve something in life, you have to work for your goals. "Hoping" will never do anything for you when there is zero action. Every success and victory requires hard work, good strategies and consistent efforts. False hopes are more dangerous than fears!

Talk Is Cheap

People will letyou down and promises will be broken. Don't expect too much from others or believe everything they said. Pay attention and watch their actions instead. If their words and actions don't match, stop serving good vibes to those who deserve goodbye! Never try to hurt a kind person and think it is alright to apologize later. Even the nicest people have their limits. They may never forgive you for the broken trust and the emotional scars.

Treat everyone with respect. It's ok to be angry, but it is NOT ok to be cruel! One grave mistake can result serious consequences permanently and living with guilt is tormenting. So always remind yourself to think before you speak and act, because sorry are just words that can't fix everything.

Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone

We are living in a world of judgement, prejudices and deception. No matter what you do, you'll get judged anyway. Never give anyone the power to control your mind and manipulate your emotions. Their criticisms and opinions don't feed you or pay your bills. Be wise to ignore the negativity and those who try to put you down. You are in charge of your happiness and life is too short to worry about how others see you. Get out of the shell and express yourself. Live life to the fullest and always do what makes you happy! 😎       

             

 

Everyone will have some regrets at some point in life. I've been there and done that! but don't look back, we are not going that way! Forgive yourself for the mistakes but remember the lessons. 

                     

Life has many amazing ways to teach us everyday and each time you fall, you learn to get up STRONGER with the wisdom and courage inside you. Remember, the past version of yourself is so proud of how far you've achieved and the best is yet to come!

"Sparkle Up and Keep Shining!"⭐🌞

The DO's and DON'Ts During Chinese New Year🧧

Growing up in a traditional Chinese family, the Lunar New Year is the most important festival of the year. 

From spring cleaning, new year shopping, reunion dinner and giving red packets(Ang Pow) etc...These customs are passed down from generation to generation. 

During the 15-days of celebration, there are many taboos and superstitions that many Chinese households still practice these beliefs every Spring festival. The ultimate goal is to welcome abundance of blessings, good fortune and prosperity in the coming year.

Personally, I don't follow everything strictly, but I respect traditions and I believe we should preserve cultural heritage. If it doesn't harm, I'd rather be safe than sorry! 😘

We have heard many traditional customs and beliefs from our parents and grandparents...

Here are the important DO's and DON'Ts during Chinese New Year :

❎ The DON'Ts :

No Housekeeping.

Do not sweep/mop the floor or wash the clothes on the first day of Lunar New Year, it is believed that this will bring bad luck, sweeping away the wealth and fortune from the family.

Avoid Black and White. 

It is inauspicious to wear black and white on the first day of Chinese New Year. The colors are often associated with sad and unhappy events, so it's best to avoid them. (Ah gong and Ah ma won't like it!) 

The Chinese believe red brings good luck, joy and success! Hence, red is the most preferred color during this festive, but if you don't like wearing red, any bright and colorful outfits are safe. 

No Crying Please...

This is the biggest taboo during Chinese New Year. Crying is forbidden! It brings sadness, problems and bad luck to the family. Avoid at all cost!

No Hospital/Doctor Visits.

If it is not an emergency, avoid going to the hospital or see a doctor during this period, as this could invite illnesses and cause poor health. 

Don't Break Anything.

It is unfortunate to break anything on the first day of new year. Broken pieces is a bad omen, so be extra careful. If something breaks, saying good auspicious words out loud may prevent misfortunes and bad luck. 

No Fighting.

Avoid disputes, arguments, gossips and foul language during this happy occasion. Watch your tongue and keep your cool! Give praises, speak kindly and use positive words to attract peace and harmony.

✅ The DO's :

Decorate The House.

Remember the ancient legend of 'Nian'? The Chinese welcome the new year by decorating their house with red lucky spring couplets, as many believe this will bring good fortune, blessings and ward off evil.

 

New Clothing.

It it recommended to wear new clothes and new shoes on the first day of Chinese New Year as it symbolizes a fresh start and a new beginning.

Pray / Go Temple.

Many Chinese families would visit the temple to pray and make offerings to the heavenly deities and to ancestors for a new year of blessings to the family.

Eating Together.

Chinese New Year is a time to feast and enjoy family bonding. Eating together enhance unity and family harmony. A family who eats together, stays together! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

 

Clear Your Debts.

All outstanding payments and bills should be cleared before the 1st day of Chinese New Year. This is to avoid bringing old debts into the new year or you'll be slogging another year to pay off more debts. 

Stay Up Late.

According to tradition, staying up late on the Eve of Chinese New Year is said to bring longevity for our parents, the later you stay, they longer they live. It is a good virtue of filial piety.

Visit Relatives and Friends. 

It's a good time to catch up with family and friends during the long holidays. Don't forget to exchange the mandarin oranges for each house visits (for good luck) and make sure you do not exceed 8 visitors per household. 

This Chinese New Year is a little different since there are more safety measures and restrictions to fight the pandemic. Though it does affect the festive mood and cause some inconvenience but it should not stop us from enjoying good times with family/friends and celebrating this joyful festival like we always do! 

Today is Li Chun.(立春 - 03 Feb 2021) It is the beginning of Spring in the Chinese calendar. 2021 is the year of the Ox and I hope it will be a fruitful year for all! May we remind ourselves to be strong and hardworking like the Ox, in achieving our goals and dreams! 

Happy Lunar NIU Year in advance and have a fabulous CNY celebration! Here's wishing everyone a prosperous and a 'HUAT' 2021! Cheers! 🐄🧧

What are some interesting CNY taboos and superstitions you know? Share with me and comment below.🙂

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What's your favorite flower?🌹

The language of flowers have different meanings and symbolism. I love Roses and Sunflowers, they are my all time favorite! Roses symbolized love and passion, while Sunflowers symbolized vitality and adoration.

Flowers have a positive effect on mood, they brightens up the day and the combination of bright colors makes me feel happy and warm. They reminds me of beauty, happiness and gratitude. The sweet scent of fresh flowers are so refreshing and smoothing. Indeed, it always feels sweet and special to receive flowers any day!

September is a special month for me, not only it's my kids birthdays, but it's also my Wedding Anniversary. Wow! I was thrilled to receive a huge bouquet from Little Flower Hut, delivered to my house. It really made my day!😊 Well, it's been a while since the last time I received a huge bouquet (I hope my hubby is reading this.lol)

 

 

 

Look at the beautiful creation! I love the pink & purple combination, it's sweet and feminine! I can't stop looking and admiring them all day. This is similar to "Eternal Love" and the florist customized a special bouquet just for my wedding anniversary. I love it and I truly appreciate the special flower arrangement by their thoughtful and delicate florists. What a wonderful surprise, perfect for our wedding anniversary in a few days time!

 

Little Flower Hut is a local flower delivery service that offer affordable flowers arrangement for weddings, anniversaries, graduations, birthdays and many other occasions. They aim to provide the best deals, services to their customers and they deliver the orders on time. 

I love that they provide Free Same Day Delivery, Super Express, Morning and Late-Nite Delivery Services with No GST They have bridal bouquets, birthday cake flowers, hampers and they offer customized floral arrangements as well. There are many different variety of flower arrangements / designs on their website to choose from. 

 

It's so convenient to surprise someone anytime of the day or for any events/occasions. If you are looking for quick flower delivery with good service and a budget rate, I would strongly recommend their service to all my friends and readers. 

 

 

 

Check out their website for more details and latest promotions or call (+65) 6503 9750 to place an order.

 

Flowers never fail to bring joy and happiness, so send a floral surprise to your dear ones today! 

Make them SMILE and their hearts bloom! 😊🌻

 

 

Yoon Salon: Everyone Deserves Beautiful Hair!

"Your hair is your crowning glory, own it, love it, enjoy it!"

Most of us are adjusting to new routines and new lifestyles such as working from home with flexi hours but that doesn't mean we can't look our best, we can still look great and feel confident any day.

Though we may not travel as much as we used to, many of us including myself, require to be facing the screen very often to connect with our colleagues and business associates through Zoom meetings / interviews. Messy tresses don't impress! Hence, it is still important to groom yourself and look presentable in your profession.

As much as we care for our skin and body, we need to note that mane care routine is equally important to maintain healthy looking locks. After all, it is an asset that we own and nobody wants it to look nasty!

Remember those bad hair days that made you feel 'unglam' and crappy throughout the day that you didn't even feel like meeting anyone or stepping out of the house. Yes, having beautiful gorgeous tresses will make you feel more attractive, charming and positive about your appearance and that is a huge confidence booster!

I strongly believe that everyone can be beautiful if you make an effort to groom and bring the best out of yourself. When you look good, you feel good inside and out, that to me is beauty, charm and confidence. 

It doesn't matter if you have long or short locks, or how old you are but please invest in them! It's the only crown you will never remove. Life isn't perfect but your locks can be! 

I have to confess that I’m a little obsessed with my mane. Some days, I could sit in front of the mirror and style up my locks for hours. I love to try different colors and highlights too. I believe coloring is a great self-expression that reflects your personality and style.

I keep my tresses to my shoulder length. This style suits my personality and my active lifestyle. I enjoy visiting a parlour for trimming, washing and coloring etc...

I don't know about you but I just love that refreshing feeling when my crown feels so smooth, light and bouncy after a visit, it makes me feel fabulous that I can't stop flipping my tresses.(lol) 

We all love some great deals and I’m always hunting for the best deals in town to share with my readers and one day YOON Salon caught my attention. The positive reviews from happy customers made me find out more about its services.

The Leading Salon In Town!

YOON is a prestigious salon in Singapore. The have a team that has great experience and knowledge in their trade. The professionals are trained to solve problems and attend to their customers' needs. They are equipped with the right skills to understand what clients want. They are able to efficiently find out what could be the best hairstyle that suits the shape of the face, complexion and personality of every client.

At YOON, they take extra care to use gentle products for you. They ensure their products are safe and not too harsh. They offer a wide range of services that include Creative Hair Coloring, Korean perms, Hair Shaping, Rebonding, Hair Defrizzing and Regrowth treatments and many more...

YOON Salon's Care Tips (How Awesome!)

There are many useful care tips and information on their website to help customers gain more knowledge about hair. They will understand how the services provided by YOON work too. For example, some topics are - how to choose the right dye, hot vs cold perms and how to treat frizziness etc. These articles contain helpful information that will benefit consumers. When you read those articles, you will know that with their professionalism and expertise, your locks will definitely be in good hands! It is undoubtedly a one-stop centre that provides a full range of premium hair services :

Premium Services by YOON Salon : 

 

YOON aims to provide excellent service to all their customers. They wish to ensure that all clients walk out of there with a result they have long desired.

Express Your Style!

 

Personally, I think a hairstyle is an attitude of your unique personality and style, so don't be afraid to express yourself, be open to exploring new things. You can always try a new haircut, a cute Korean perm or a new color that suits your style. 

Changes can create wonders! The right hairstyle with complementing colors can enhance your beauty and make you look fresher, stunning and stylish. Regular treatments can also help to keep your locks in good shape. Your tresses will be maintained and glow healthily.

Love Is In The Hair

Beautiful glowy tresses will indeed make a woman feel good, feminine and confident about herself. Having gorgeous looking locks is no longer a dream when the real experts are here!

I am truly very selective about this. Our crown is such an important asset. So we definitely don't want it to be messed up. I will only go for the ones that I trust wholeheartedly. Stylists there must be dedicated and listen to what their customers want. And I only stick to professional stylists with good values and provide quality services. I love those that provide all the services that I need because it saves a lot time. I will want to get all my mane care services done on the same day. This will be absolutely perfect for busy moms with tight schedules. YOON ticks all of that. Plan to visit one of their outlets soon? Here are the details for you!

Get In Touch

YOON has 3 outlets in Singapore and they are located at :

Midpoint Orchard

220 Orchard Road,

#01-02 Midpoint Orchard,

Singapore 238852

Tel : 6235 3816

Havelock II

2 Havelock Rd,

#01-04 Havelock II,

Singapore 059763

Tel : 6223 0224

Queensway Shopping Centre

1 Queensway, #02-29

Queensway Shopping Centre,

Singapore 149053

Tel : 6261 0913

Their opening hours for all outlets are from :

11AM – 9PM (Weekdays)

11AM – 9PM (Weekends) 

PH Eve / PH: 11AM – 9PM

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Good news lovelies! If you are a first timer, you can try out One Session For $28. Grab this offer and fill up the form via their website. 

Make an appointment with them now and talk to their friendly staff. Bring your friends along and pamper yourself with premium services.

Speaking of all this, it's time for me to make a trip to one soon too. I am thinking of getting a wash and blow service, maybe I should also trim the bangs and get a new color too! 

Everyone loves beautiful, healthy looking locks...it's never too late to take care and pamper your tresses. Say goodbye to frizzy, dull and bad hair days, now everyone can have beautiful locks because you deserves the best!