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20 June 2022

Practical Ways To Boost Self-Confidence


Living in a surreal and competitive world today, we are challenged to cope with emotions, work ethics and tackle different situations. Good interpersonal skills and self-confidence can enrich work performance, social equity and welcome doors of opportunity. Self-confidence is trusting your abilities to handle obstacles and resolve problems in a productive manner.


However, most people struggle some form of insecurities in relationships, financial, body image, social anxiety from time to time and feel withdrawn from life temporarily, this is perfectly normal, since it is not humanly possible to feel positive and be confident 24/7. Self-confidence isn't an overnight process, but the good news is, we can cultivate and master this skill. There are several ways to build self-confidence that we can practice in our daily life.

Speaking from an introvert whom I used to be in my teens. Self-confidence can take years to develop, but through life experience, adversity and major breakthroughs, the transition has evaluate my strength, knowledge and confidence today, so allow me to share some humble tips and advice from *my personal experience.

Here are some practical ways to boost Self-Confidence...(You're welcome!😉)

Smile
A friendly smile is the best ice-breaker for any social events/activities and meeting new people. Smiles are pleasing and captivating, it makes a person appear warm, lovable and approachable. A genuine smile never goes wrong! You may even attract secret admirers.lol😄

Maintain Eye Contact
Keep your eyes on the person as you speak, it's a sign of confidence and showing interest, but if you feel awkward and uncomfortable to look deep into their eyes. (*Try looking at the nose or the center region of the face) Avoid fidgeting too much, looking away or glancing your phone. Your body language reflects your confidence.

                    

Speak Clearly and Concisely
Speak with a bright tone and a normal speed. Don't mumble the words or speaking too fast and too soft. Be diplomatic in a conversation and speak tactfully with respect. That way, people are more likely to listen and pay attention to your speech.

Keep Your Word 
If you made a promise or a mutual agreement, be responsible and get things done in order. When we uphold our words, we show trust, respect, reliability and commitments. Confidence is often built on accomplishments.

                   

Do The Right Thing
I value good morals and justice. At times, you must speak up, be seen, be heard and stand up for yourself when there is a problem or something is wrong. Stand firmly on what you believe and act with integrity. Do what is right, not what is easy!
                         

Dress Up and Be Well-Groomed
The right outfits, designs, 
style and colors can enhance your appearance and boost self-confidence. You don't need to dress like a model or have the perfect body to look cool! The key is to dress smart, comfortably and appropriately. Make some efforts to groom yourself, take care of your skin, hair and wear some light make-ups, it will make you look more radiant and refreshed. When you look good, you definitely feel great!🥰


Identify Your Strengths
Acknowledge your achievements and focus on your strengths. Everyone has some special skills and talents, it could be playing music, singing, writing, cooking/baking, painting, sports etc...If you are passionate and good at something, improvise the skills to develop creativity and innovations.


Self-Improvement and Feed More Knowledge
Read everyday, about the world, the economy and upgrade yourself. The world is moving so fast with ultra-modern technologies and new projections for the future. An intelligent mind is outstanding, it offers constructive ideas and insightful information. You will feel much confident when you are well-informed and knowledgeable.

Self-Acceptance and Know Your Worth
Learn to accept who you are and love yourself! No one is perfect but don't settle for less than you deserve! I firmly believe everyone is unique in their own ways, so never compare yourself to others. Confidence Has No Competition! We all have different perspectives, standards and priorities. Don't live by other's opinions, criticisms and validations. Live your life in your own terms and pursue what matters most. Strive for success, happiness and achieve your aspirations.

                 

Strong Conversational Skill
Good communication is a powerful tool in all aspects of life. Personally, I do NOT encourage any type of silent treatment or ghosting,etc...It's toxic, boorish, incompetent and unprofessional in my honest opinion. Never run away from problems, be brave to face it! Silence and avoidance will never resolve anything and in fact, it cause more misunderstanding and confusions. Be mature and open to accept feedback and suggestions.

                      

Unfortunately, most people don't listen to understand, they listen with the intent to reply. Learn to express your thoughts, emotions calmly and listen without judging. A low-esteem, poor communicator will avoid any discussions and clarity, while a confident speaker initiate a conversation to work things out and resolve conflicts/disputes. The way we react and handle various situations display the level of confidence.                    

Indeed, self-confidence is one of the most important traits to success, along with a strong mentality and positive attitude towards life...
Be Confident NOT Arrogant! :)

Remember, it doesn't matter what professions, age, gender and ethnicity, everyone can learn to be more confident at any phrase to embrace self-growth, intellectual qualities and massive transformations!👍

"Self-Confidence is attractive and it's the most beautiful outfit...Wear it and own it!" 😎



21 May 2022

Sold-Out Concert : Dawn & Sublimation Piano Recital By Haiou Zhang



"Music can change the world!" A classic quote by Beethoven.

Undeniably, music create social cohesion, it's an universal language that inspire and connect people. Music influence our emotions, mentality and boost creativity that can impact the society.

I've always been passionate about music since my school days. Music has inspired me amazingly in life and evaluates my creativity aspects in my work. I appreciate good music and I enjoy music concerts such as, live bands, orchestra and symphony etc.. It is fascinating how different musicians display their authentic musical style, expressing the soul and the elements of each melody.

I am delighted and honored to be invited to a live concert - Dawn & Sublimation Piano Recital By Haiou Zhang, held at the Singapore Conference Hall on 14 May 2022.  The sold-out concert was a great success and the audience were mesmerized by his magnificent performance! 

               

Here's a brief summary of Haiou Zhang's Piano Recital - Dawn & Sublimation Singapore 2022

                       

                   

               

Haiou Zhang is a Chinese-German International Pianist. He started his very first piano lesson around the age of nine. Two years later, he is one of the outstanding candidates to get accepted into the Central Conservatory of Music in Beijing and graduated in 2002 with special honors. In 2011, he graduated with the best note in the soloist-class at the Hochschule für Musik und Theater Hannover with Prof. Bernd Goetzke.

With his gifted talents and enthusiasm for music. Haiou Zhang earned significant recognition and achieved prestigious awards in his musical career. The 38year old virtuosic pianist has performed tens of thousands of recitals internationally and also an influential ambassador for the arts that builds the bridge Eastern and Western culture. 
Check out full bio of Haiou Zhang
 
Haiou Zhang plays Bach & Beethoven classical tune on a C.Bethstein Concert Grand Piano D282 (*Specially flown in from Berlin) for his world Concert Tour.

          

Bechstein Music World, located in Shenton Way is the first flagship center outside Berlin, Germany to be set up in Southeast Asia that houses world class handcrafted piano from Germany -C. BECHSTEIN.

The Bechstein Concert Piano is top quality, elegance and exquisite. It's a reputable grand piano brand in the world since 1853 - Made in Germany.

               

                

               

The pandemic has caused a major disruption globally and it's been a while since we experience a live concert ambience. Music is one of the best entertainment for all ages, it lightens up the mood, reduce mental stress, uplift the spirits of humanity to amid changes, challenges and enhance resilience & harmony.

The themed concert is the first Post-Pandemic recital to celebrate Dawn and Sublimation and is specially dedicated to music lovers in the Singapore community. As a Musicophile and a Music Mentor, I'm looking forward to more exhilarating concerts in the near future...and a heartfelt thanks for the lovely event gifts!😉




The event is proudly presented by Bechstein Music World

          

 
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